22 November 2006

Whatever It Takes

Matt Dawson is something of a real Superstar. Originally known for being a powerhouse scrum half he’s transformed into a MasterChef and now an elegant ballroom dancer!

He’s been a familiar face to BBC UK TV audiences with his ‘A Question of Sport' appearances as team captain, opposite Ally McCoist. But England, Northampton Saints and Wasps rugby star Matt Dawson is stepping well outside his usual comfort zones on national television. Why would anyone want to take on this potential humiliation?

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The BBC website on the show says: “Dawson retired from rugby in 2006, after a career which earned him 77 England caps and put him in a crucial position for England's victorious performance in the 2003 Rugby World Cup. There's no doubting Dawson's ability as a scrum half – but the rugby pitch is a long way from the dance floor. Can Dawson learn grace and accuracy after a career of speed and strength?”

The finalists in the BBC MasterChef competition actually showed what it takes to excel in something like this. Two of the three were sportsmen and they clearly had what it took to win in both the sports arena or the kitchen. Their training regime of transferable mental skills was clearly at work.

Matt says: “I enjoyed every single minute of it. I learned from it….. and progressed as I went through the competition”.

So how is he shaping up in Strictly Come Dancing? Well, the competition is still running but he’s in there doing well. He’s listening to the sometimes very harsh comments by expert judges and, most importantly, taking these comments on board and doing something about it!
Dawson says: “As long as I'm not the first out, I'll be happy. Two or three weeks is enough and anything beyond that is a bonus. I'm looking forward to getting into the costumes; you can't really sign up for Strictly Come Dancing and then refuse to wear the sequins and ruffles. When I go down, I want to go down in a blaze of glory!” This healthy attitude is one factor but Matt and dance Partner Lilia Kopylova last week did something to raise their bar everyone should take notice of, irrespective of their business arena.

The previous week they had received comments that, whilst the routine, the steps and timing etc were fine Matt’s performance lacked heart. These dances were of Latin origin and often therefore sexual in nature. Matt’s performance was missing some ‘fire’. So, he brings in an acting coach. I apologise to her but don’t have details of her name or contact info. I have seen a short clip of her session with them and she had them engage in some improvisational theatre games concerned with emotions and feelings.

But the point is this. The following week the judges were suitably impressed with his performance, recognised that he was now feeling the piece, and showing that and two of the four awarded him a nine and ten (out of ten) respectively.

That’s a fine lesson for everyone. If you want to ‘win’ whatever you game, even if it’s something away from your usual arena or outside your comfort zone then do whatever it takes. When you stretch you grow. Something that's stretched never goes back to the same size again. For you that could just mean outsourcing or bringing in an expert from another field, so you can benefit from their knowledge and up your game.

Whatever it takes!

John Gordon
http://www.theinfotainer.com/

28 July 2006

Motive Actions

Some Questions ...

What gets you up in the morning?

What lights your fire?

What will make you drop everything and do it?

What are your Hot Buttons?

What are your dreams and burning ambitions?


I ask many people this and they struggle to give me an answer. Whether it is why they have attended a workshop or perhaps a longer term life goal, they have trouble in saying why they are doing what they are doing and where they are going.

No wonder only about 3% ever achieve their life dreams.

Oh sure, many say they are OK, that life is "fine", ...... "can't complain" "mustn't grumble"... you've heard them too. Because these people have accepted their lot. They've essentially 'given up'. resigned to a life of 'ordinaryness'. Mundane, meaningless without any ambition.


Find Inspirational Quotes Here.

John Gordon
Motivation Magic
http://www.theinfotainer.com/

16 July 2006

He's Done It!

Wow ... I hear that on July 11 2006, the One Red Paperclip guy, Kyle MacDonald, traded for a house.

He bagan with one red paperclip on July 12 2005 and on July 12, 2006 (14 trades later), he planned to trade for a house located at 503 Main Street, trading with the Town of Kipling Saskatchewan . Click the link above (right click and open in new window, of course) to see the story and then chain.


one red paperclip
one red paperclip
one house
one year

How did this happen?

The simplicity, the focus and a clear end goal provided the motivation necessary. And that worked - just like magic! Alchemy.

The whimsical element gave it legs and captured the imagination of others who were keen to assist in helping Kyle achieve his goal.

You don't have to be so outrageous nor do you have to make such a massive leap but you can still use the principles involved to set and get a goal, achieve your dream.

SO ... what is your paperclip and what will you attempt to do with it?

John
Motivation Magic
http://www.theinfotainer.com/
http://oneredpaperclip.blogspot.com/